Thursday, December 10, 2009

And a Merry Fricken Christmas to you too!

What is it about the holiday season that turns so many into mean, rude, unsympathetic, "move it or lose it" people? I thought this was a time where we embrace each other even more and are supposed to be kind and nicer than normal. Maybe it is just the places I am going or it is just the way the times are now....I have no clue but it is so damn annoying! People at the stores are rude and cut in front of you, grab things you are grabbing for and sometimes just pretend you aren't there. I know it is so stressful around this time and everyone wants to get in and out and on with their lives but come on! It just seems that people suck more this year than last.

It isn't even just the regular stores that are bad, my most recent experience at thee grocery store was enough to slap someone. It was raining (which should have been my first clue to stay home since no one knows how to react when it rains here) and I decided to stop in Smiths to pick up a few things. It started in the parking lot. I had my blinker on waiting for a car to pull out so I could have the parking spot and a car comes from the other side and steals my spot! Yeah I know it happens all the time but I never do that especially when someone has already "claimed" it by using their blinker. Ugh whatever so I decide to let it go (not without shooting them a dirty look of course) and find another spot.
Once inside I make my way down to the salad aisle and stand back so that people can walk down the row or so I don't block anyone elses view and this guy and his wife walk right in front of me and start looking too. It was as if I wasn't there, or they saw me and figured I was standing there for fun. I just stood there, I didn't say anything I just stood there, and waited for them to get what they needed and move on. However, they didn't, the man literally stood there inspecting every damn bag of salad for at least 5 minutes. Finally I made my way up there (I may or may not have nudged him out of the way a little bit ;) and grabbed what I needed, while he was STILL inspecting bags of lettuce. Those little instances continued throughout the shopping trip, things like people standing in the middle of aisles with their carts and not moving even though you say "excuse me", being bumped into and so on. The meanest thing happened to me in the parking lot on my way out.

I am visibly pregnant pushing a cart in the rain making my way across the designated crosswalk in front of the store, I get halfway across and this guy in a truck decides he doesn't want to wait for me anymore and decides to pull out in front of me. His truck was so close to me that my face was maximum 5 inches away from his drivers side window. I contemplated ramming my cart into his truck but inside yelled some obscenities to him and just hurried up to my car. At that point I was so done with that night I just wanted to go home.

So you know be nice out there! Slow it down and try not to be in a rush, or if you are don't be a douche, say a Merry Christmas or something a flash a smile

1 comment:

  1. I'm right there with you girly! people are ASSHOLES...HUMANS period are ASS HOLES!!!
    I remember when I was pregenant/huffing and puffing from grocery store to car and having the same damn issues, people are so rude! Now that I have Clover, I'm psycho...seriously. I was walking out of GOOD o'l "Wolly world" {walmart} with Clover in the cart and this stupid bitc* excuse my language, almost freaking ran us over, I was like MAMA Bear on steriods! I was yelling and saying all kinds of things, that my poor child shouldn't of heard. I hate going to walmart, not to be mean, but there is a lot of trash there and the people can be soooo rude! I just go there to get soaps, detergent, diapers etc, then get the hell out of there! People even drive crazy in that parking lot. Anyhow, I know exactly what your talking about. Sometimes it just seems like everyone is in a rush in this town and out for themselves and only for themselves. It scares the hell out of me to go anywhere with my little girl in the car. I've also experienced some WEIRD/RUDE situations while shopping, I'll tell you later, too long to write. anyhow, I miss you and let's do lunch this week!!!! Anywhere is fine with me even if It's on your side of town. Well, I send lot's of love to you and that a baby :)